A love note to Men.

I love men.

There, I said it.

You wouldn't think it, but in the current dialogue of society this can be quite a controversial thing to say.

I have been ostracised in groups of women for not joining in on man hating conversations, and standing my ground and saying that I know many good men.

I have been called a 'pick me' girl.

I don't deny that there are male predators.

Trust me, I have met them and related with them.

I even grew up around them.

So don't tell me that I don't know how abusive men can be- I know.

But, I refuse to label all men as the same.

Yes, I guess in a way I'm saying- "but not all men".

I was shocked recently when I hung out with a life long friend and she said she hated men- despite being in a good relationship with one.

I empathise with her experiences and that she has met men that treated her poorly.

But let's not forget about the beautiful men out there.

This note is for those men.

The men that love to provide.
The men that love to care.
The men that love to put effort in.
The men that love to serve.

I see you and I love your willingness to please.
I see you and I love your willingness to give.

Thank you for being a shining example of masculine energy.

I know the world isn't always kind to you.
I know it can be difficult to navigate what it means to be a man today.

Your presence makes a difference.
Your strength inspires.
Your vulnerability heals.

And for that, I am grateful.